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Frampton Comes Alive (in Psychotherapy)

“More specifically, the analytic task of helping the [patient] become more fully human involves facilitating the patient’s efforts … to experience a greater range (and play) of thoughts, feelings, and sensations that are felt to be his own and that are felt to have been generated in the context of his own present and past […]

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A Marriage Between Humans and Technological Advance

In keeping with my interest and focus on writing about the internet and its effect on human behavior, thinking and relationship, I read with interest a review in the New York Times of a book that looks at this very question. The reviewer’s first sentence expressed a similar interest as my own: “I don’t know […]

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What We Talk About When We Talk Across Cyberspace: How We Relate in the Age of the Internet

There is perhaps nothing that can be said about modern life more true than observing the ubiquity of the internet. It is indeed everywhere. People now meet through the internet for purposes of casual acquaintance, sexual encounters, and potential long-lasting relationships. People plan their travel online (does anyone remember travel agents?). People bank. People read. […]

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Musings on the Mind at Play

The other day I heard the neuroscientist Stuart Firestein on Forum echoing the philosophy of Socrates. Mr. Firestein, the author of a new book called “Ignorance,’ argued that science is less about an accumulation of facts and more about embracing what we don’t know. He was talking about maintaining a view that the more one […]

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Corrective Emotional Experience, Plus

Writing in 1946, Franz Alexander coined the term “corrective emotional experience” to describe what he thought of as the key aspect of psychotherapy treatment. In his work, he expanded on Freud’s discoveries of half a century earlier. Freud maintained that people in a sense forget their traumatic experiences by repressing the memory of those experiences. […]

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The Relationship Crucible

There was a wonderful article recently in the New York Times, by a wonderful and favorite writer of mine, Diane Ackerman, that talks about how science has proved what psychotherapy has known for some time now: change takes place through relationship. Citing the new field of interpersonal neurobiology, Ms. Ackerman, in her piece called “The […]

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Flip Flopping Towards Health

Much can be known about the American psyche from even a casual glance at American politics. My focus here is to address the psyche and not the politics of the politicians. Take what happened yesterday. A spokesman for the Romney campaign said some things about hitting the “reset button” when the general election campaign begins […]

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Some More Thoughts About Feelings (Intuition)

Earlier I wrote about the more conventional understanding of feeling: as an emotion that one experiences or perhaps one defends against experiencing. There are some other ways, however, that we use the term “feeling.” There is another type of feeling, what is commonly referred to as a kind of knowing in one’s core or “gut.” […]

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Psychotherapy: Two Minds Trusting One Another

I came across the following passage in a journal article. The author of the article quotes from Sheldon Bach, Ph.D., a contemporary psychoanalyst: “Most importantly, since I am implicitly asking my patients to trust me with their minds, I struggle to attain a position where I can trust them with my own mind and feel […]

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